I’ve always thought that it would be interesting to sit on a jury and see the process first hand. But yesterday the summons came for jury selection, and I was incredibly surprised at how little you are compensated. And to be frank, in this economy, I don’t know how people can afford it.Here is what I learned:You are required to be present for the selection process on the day that they tell you, and possibly every day for up to one week.There is no allowance for transportation, parking, or child care. You are not paid anything and while your employer is required to give you time off to attend, they are not required to pay you.If you are chosen to sit on a jury, you are compensated in the following amounts: Day 0-10 $0/day, Day 11-49 $40/day, Day 50+ $100/day. And again, no allowance for parking, transportation, childcare, or requirement for your employer to pay you.While I understand that it is a civil duty to sit on a jury if selected, I honestly don’t know how the government expects people to afford this. In the city I live in, a conservative estimate for parking costs is $25/day. So for a trial that lasts more than 10 days (not including additional jury selection time) a minimum of $250 out of pocket will go to parking, all while bringing in zero income. If the trial continues, they’ll give you a whopping $40 allowance, so I guess at least parking is paid.In this situation I am extremely privileged to have a partner who can earn income, while I cannot. And I don’t have kids (I can’t even begin to imagine how parents do this), but it seems unreasonable that jurors are compensated so little. Could be a very financially costly gig.Thanks for reading. Rant over.EDIT: Note, if you live outside of the city (40km+), you may be eligible for a travel allowance. I am not optimistic that it would be generous though. via /r/ontario https://ift.tt/95KvP60

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I cannot rate them highly enough! Currently on day 5 of my breastfeeding journey, and I have absolutely no pain or nipple trauma. Other than the first 10 second when he latches, breastfeeding is completely painless for me!I tried going a couple of hours without wearing them yesterday, and the feeling of my dry nipples against my bra was so so unpleasant, I couldn’t wait to put them back on! I bought mine second hand and had no worries about it because they’re super easy to sterilize. Wishing you all the best! I will be posting my graduation story soon, but I want to do it justice so imma wait until I have the time! via /r/pregnant https://ift.tt/eF61uft

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Hey fellow Ontarians,I know times are tough for a lot of us right now and I’m sure I’m not the only one trying to find places to save money. I put together this meal plan this morning and wanted to share in hopes that it helps someone.I know it won’t work for everyone but even if it’s a starting point for you to work from!All prices were taken from Walmart in London this weekend. Prices are based on single servings (one person) and work out to $4.40 day (or $132/month).In terms of nutrition, I used the Lose It app to calculate. Total is 1975 calories (30% fat, 53% carbs, 17% protein).Breakfast: $0.511 cup cooked oatmeal ($0.10), with 2 tbsp peanut butter ($0.11), and one banana ($0.30)Lunch: $0.671 cup cooked rice ($0.12), 1/2 cup cooked beans ($0.16), and 1/2 cup cooked spinach ($0.39)Dinner: $1.453 oz ground beef ($0.93), 1 potato ($0.30), 1 cup carrots ($0.22)Snacks and Drinks: $1.771 apple ($0.58), 7 cups popcorn ($0.09), 3 cups milk ($1.10)Details:Quick oats, 1 kg bag, $2.47Peanut butter, 1 kg, $3.77Bananas, $0.30Basmati rice, 3.62 kg bag, $9.97Kidney beans, 3.62 kg bag, $10.27Frozen spinach, 500 g bag, $2.27Ground beef, 1 lb, $.4.97Potatoes, 10 lb bag, $5.97Carrots, 3 lb bag, $1.97Apples, 3 lb bag, $3.97Popcorn kernels, 850 g bag, $2.472% Milk, 4 L bag, $5.89 via /r/ontario https://ift.tt/vG5g13c

Over the years, the cliche “Handmaid’s Tale…1984…A Brave New World…” always get mentioned for their prophetic take on a future world. I’ve never heard Butler mentioned in these conversations, but her parable books, pulses in the 90s, were discussing a future with right wing, Christo-fascism taking hold in America after the election of a presidential candidate claiming that he’s trying to “Make America Great Again.” City towns owned by corporations, poor people voting for strong men because of the lack of education anda feeling of desperation. Government/police that have given up even acting like they aren’t just there to help corporations.etc. Through the two books, she paints a horrifyingly familiar picture of US society (familiar, not exact. I’m aware that society has not completely broken down in the US), exhibiting a clear understanding of the direction the US was heading and she did so pre-9/11. The writing is beautiful. The story is captivating. Basically, I’m blown away by her work, and I cannot believe I’ve never read anything she wrote. via /r/books https://ift.tt/NaJEdLS

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Having been home with LO one week, here are the things I have found absolutely wonderful to have – as well as some additions from the April birth sub reddit. Thought I’d pass it along for those getting close and those looking to add to their registry.car seat/ travel system – one that detaches from the base is greatbassinet (I have 2, one for the living room and one for our bedroom)sleep sacks, zip up swaddles (I have the Halo zip one and it is wonderful) or swaddling blankets or receiving blankets (recommended over swaddling as they can cover swaddling, burping, and blankey)diapers and wipes (Huggies are my preference)Vaseline (their first poops are like tar, so adding cream at each diaper change has helped ensure everything is easier to wipe down)sudocream (rash cream)baby soapbaby wash clothesmittens ( my guy likes to grab and scratch his face while feeding)breast pump/ milk storage bagsFormula – I like the ready-made bottles for nighttime feedings (I found out at the doctor’s this week I need to supplement with formula until my milk comes in)bottles and bottle cleaning brush/ bottle sterilizerbaby laundry detergentclothing for 0 – 3m and New Born (2 way zip onesies are a must for sleeping – you can unzip from the bottom to change, which helps keep them warm)hatsbreastfeeding tops and bras (I had none and man, do those things actually help)diaper bagsoothersglow baby app or something to track feedings and poops. Glow, let’s you share an account with another person, which is nice. -swing or bouncy seat to set them in so you can be hands-free (meal time, it is really nice)adult diapers (you bleed for 6 weeks after delivery, and honestly, it helps me feel secure about break through bleeding)peri bottle (one per bathroom)night light (I have a chargeable one from amazon that I use for night feedings and changes, so there doesn’t need to be bright lights that wake him)snot suckercolick water and the pacifier with the syringe attached to give medicationvitamin d dropsgarbage can for diapers (I have the diaper genie upstairs and a regular flip lid can in our bedroom, and I can say the regular can is my preference)change table/ u shaped change pad that can go on a dresserheating pads and lansinoh ice packs (for those breastfeeding – you may get engorged)nipple pads and creamAdditional infoIf you haven’t yet, I suggest signing up for Enfamil, Silmac, Huggies, and Pampers – they send you coupons- Enfamil sends you ones for free canisters of formula (worse case, if you dont use it you can donate it to a food bank or womens shelter).Also, Amazon gives a discount of 10% for non prime and 15% for prime members on unpurchased items, which is helpful.Hospital bags – track pants x 2 – nursing bras x2 – nursing tops ×2 – pj bottoms – socks x 3 – tooth brush – tooth paste – soap – towel – hair products (shampoo, conditioner) – hair ties – pads or adult diapers (the hospital may provide these for you, but they are bulky) – peri bottle (again one may be provided) – outfits for baby – the 2 way zip ones are great – diapers x4 – Vaseline – snacks for you and your partner via /r/pregnant https://ift.tt/52x6iBq