Can’t get baby to settle to feed

I’m at my wit’s end about this. Every feeding time is a struggle. I tried to get baby to the boob once I see the hunger cues, but she never open her mouth wide enough for me, when she does, she’d look away and refuses to be directed, and also, within seconds she’d switch from calm to screaming at the boob. I feel like I have to fight just to get her to latch, because she’s resisting me all the way through, she’ll also put her hands in her mouth, and often would take a swipe at my boob while also would make the hungry cues while staring at the nipple. I’m so tired of having to struggle each time, I’m also still sore as I’m still recovering from c-section so the baby wriggling around and struggling is very uncomfortable for me. Basically it takes both me and hubby assisting me to get her to latch. I’ve managed a few times when I could latch her on my own, but most of the times hubby helped with it. I’ve tried multiple positions and the one that’s most comfortable for me and works the most is the cradle hold. Then not to mention the bad latch attempts. I’m not quite at a stage where I can get a good latch on the first go, often it takes 3-4 goes before I can get her on a good latch. All of this is very frustrating, especially for midnight (or that ungodly hour in the morning) feeding.Any advice on how to deal with this? I really need to get this sorted soon as hubby is going back to work soon and I still can’t do this consistently on my own and it’s stressing me out.Thank you so much. via /r/breastfeeding https://ift.tt/AFfPvj3