AITA for getting upset with my partner for ditching me at a wedding?
My husband (31M) and I (31F) attended a wedding last weekend, it was a beautiful wedding with lots of his friends there and I was his plus one. The night before I asked my partner to check in with me/not ditch me or at least try to include me as i’m 20 weeks pregnant obviously, not drinking and driving us there and back (2 hour away/ 4 hours in total).I was a bit nervous as i wouldn’t be drinking either and for context, it was the first big event we have attended after finding out the baby news. I find some of his ‘group’ intimidating and they can often be ‘clicky’- he is well aware of my feelings on the subject.During the reception, I struggled to find him. He never looked for me or asked me if wanted a drink. I spoke to people, mingled on my own and met some lovely people. But I couldn’t shake the feeling he just kind of dropped me contrary to what we had agreed. I thought don’t worry- he’ll try later on, he’s just saying hi to all his friends…When we all sat down for dinner (we were on seperate tables- absolutely fine), during the meal, he didn’t check on me. Didnt even come over to say hi or even include me when he went to the bar. I saw a few other people’s partners doing this as lots of couples were not sitting together. Me being 20 weeks pregnant, I felt a tinge of embrassessment.After, the dinner I said something to him reminding him about what we spoke about the night/day before and spending some time with me. As the night went on it only got worse, he avoided me, and if I asked him to sit with me for a bit, he would go for a cigarette instead, he knows I don’t want to be around second-hand smoke. I asked him to sit with me once, he made an excuse about going to the toilet and never came back. Leaving me with one of his friends who wouldn’t stop touching my stomach (annoying but its drunk people being drunk.)If I was near my partner talking to others, he would make jokes about my ‘big’ boobs in front of his friends. I tried one last time to talk to him, as it was making me upset, but all he did was look over at his friends saying he missing out, just by being sat with me and walked off.All of his friends were drunk and didn’t want to be around the sober person which was fine but meant I was often alone for long periods of time from 12pm to 12am. When I asked to leave at 12 am (the time to wedding ended), he tried to say about staying longer and tried to get others to pressure me as well.I felt so disregarded, I haven’t said much to him since but the pain is still there. When we got home, he spend the day sleeping so, didn’t have a chance to even speak about it. I haven’t said anything yet, and if you ask – he has been on nights out recently even one that week- he went out drinking to 2am (so, its not like he hasn’t been able to have ‘his fun’).​Just one day, I wanted his consideration. Apart of me thinks some people would be like let him have his fun but it was a 12 hour period, during that period he never came over once to me to ask if his pregnant wife was okay.I have a right to be upset don’t I ? Or am I being an asshole for being upset? I know it was his friend’s wedding but I have never felt more unloved. via /r/pregnant https://ift.tt/pHeryBN